Cautiously Optimistic

[Done in VA]

Oh funny story - ya know how I've been wondering how I should handle birthday amusement park debacle?

I get home last night & H says - hey I was wondering if there was anything you wanted to do w/the kids for your birthday. (of course he HAD to make sure I knew he would only do something if the kids were included - he probably wanted to make sure I knew not to ask for "A DATE!" LOL) It's really weird...I know I'm fighting for my M, but it's times like that when I am thinking OH PLEASE - don't flatter yourself.

Even worse...when he gets out of the shower & makes sure the towel stays in place when he puts on his boxers. I just roll my eyes & think OH yes - cover yourself up...if you don't, I may not be able to control myself & jump you. PLEASE - THAT never did anything for me when times were good LOL

So I say - Well, I would like to go to XYZ Amusement Park.

H says - It's going to be so busy there on a saturday. Are you sure you want to go there? Can you think about it?

I say (in a joking way, but am serious) - Well then, why don't YOU just tell me what I would like to do for MY birthday then?!