Seperated

[LitlHopeAlwys]

There's been little communication between the W and I since the weekend. Talk about being confused at this point. Over the weekend the W and I were talking about working on us, discussing making changes around the house, and even refinancing the house to a lower rate. She had even mentioned talking to her L to put the D process on hold. Now it seems like she doesn't want anything to happen.

She did say that she needs to see changes in me - suggested to me yesterday joining an anger management group - so I start Thursday, and have to do 4 hours of make up classes over the weekend with counselor to catch up to the group. Yes I do/did have an anger issue - I have been working on it in IC over the past few months.

I haven't planned the trip that she asked me to yet, although I did look into her suggestion of Ocean City, MD. It looks like it will be a lot of fun.
The only reason that I am hesitating on planning the weekend getaway is because I do not know if she put the D works on hold.

I'm also going to try and start seeing my S3 more - going to try and spend some week nights with him for dinner.

I asked the W out on a dinner date - she said she would think about it - I have to reschedule on her since I asked her for tomorrow and that's when I start group therapy.

I guess what I really could use some advise on right now, is do I ask her what is happening with the D, if she put it on hold or if she is still pushing it forward??
I don't want to pressure her, and at the same time I don't want to backslide. I feel like I have made baby steps in out stitch and would like to continue moving in the right direction.