Legally, seek out Coach and Greek, for how a legal hard-line can make a wayward wife respond.
Puppy,
I've missed these posts by Coach and Greek... Do you recall when/where they were posted? Given that we're in the legal phase now, it's very pertinent...
-AlexEN
I forget whose thread they were on, sorry. Greek posts a little less than Coach; you could do a search of her name via the search function. Or maybe start a new thread -- "Legal Hardball While DBing?" -- and get some responses.
Greek had indicated that it greatly affected her to know that Coach was going to do what he had to do, legally.