Just Keep Livin' #3

[JKL2009]

She called and we talked a little. Bottom line - she just doesn't think we can talk about this stuff (sep agreement) and get anywhere. She thinks I am going to fight her, and "screw her" in the end. She just doesn't trust.

Yes, all script. She is scared, probably still a bit confused. She also brought up something interesting - that she feels I have "moved on" already. She cited talking to old girlfriends and some other GAL type stuff as issues where she doesn't think I am sincere in wanting to work things out. She also cited snooping as more proof of trust and whatnot.

So yes, maybe I see some conflict I was not so sure about this morning. Bottom line is I need to focus on showing detached compassion, being calm and stable.

As for legal stuff, I don't know where those posts are either but I am sure it comes down to this - don't agree to anything or give away anything in hopes you will win her back. You need to be firm and fair for what is right in your book. My example, WAW thinks I am asking for more custody time in order to get child support lower. Not the case, I want to be with my son. I am not going to give in on this issue.