Maybe this is the sign of an imminent alien invasion, you know, the pods are taking over our S's bodies. I don't know about you, thinker, and anyone else, but this is not my W. This is completely out of character for her!
A funny thought, though I am not sure I would go that far. I can see my W, the old her. I see her every time she is interacting with someone other than me.
With me, it is almost as if she is constantly repeating in her head "I am not going to like you! I am not! I am not! You can't make me like you! You can't! I won't!"
As for NYC, I live and work in NJ, but can take the train in.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.