That sounds like a really good list. I have/had a few of those qualities you mentioned in my marriage...well, just in myself in general. Like the saying whatever you think (not in a mean way, but just saying), and I love a good debate. LOL I have had to learn to greatly filter what I say in this situation, and to try to rein in my need for always being right... LOL You will definitely grow through this process, and I'm glad you spoke with an attorney, just in case.

Last edited by SoConfused; 07/08/09 04:05 PM.
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