Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[mdoodles]

actually sanderika, my husband filed and had me served june 3, 2008 and that night we agreed to put it on hold.

then in may i had my attorney send his a letter to have it discontinued, we needed the money from our retainers for the store, and at that same time, he started talking with her again, all hell broke loose and his lawyer sent mine a letter saying my h wishes to move forward again.

he never mentioned his wish to move forward to me, my lawyer said he has never seen a case quite like mine.

we are not responding to the letter, it was not a legal document.

one has to wonder, would he have sought out the lawyer if i didnt first? probably not.

and if he wanted a separation/divorce so badly, he would most likely be pushing me and discussing my lack of response to the letter.

so yes, i could move forward right now. but im not.

and really, all he will get from me is a legal separation, which i know psycho ow has no idea about!!!!

i think for me, and probably for you guys, once it would be all said and done, all legal, all split and no more sex, they would realize and come running.

i am just not there enough to proceed.

not strong enough for that. not yet.