I see; I think that is the approach I am and will be taking. I plan to work with her but will not give anything away with the agreement. I have made it clear I am working on myself and working on changes not to get her back, but for me and my future. I don't want to "get back to the way things were" but rather hopefully build a new marriage with her, but if not than so be it and down the road I will apply these changes to another relationship.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3