I have followed SP thread, have learned some and realize I am still early in this process but when the lawyers get involved it is very depressing. Anyway, not sure what his thread applies to mine as there is no real clues my WAW is open to anything other than getting divorced.
I pointed you to this threads because I want you to look at how he's responded to his wife when she was exactly the same way. With a positive, "Your loss, toots -- this is what you wanted!" sort of thing.
It WORKS.
Legally, seek out Coach and Greek, for how a legal hard-line can make a wayward wife respond.