This really confuses me because as a near WAW, all I wanted was my H to stop GALing, look at me and articulate clearly that he did want to participate in improving our situation and working on our marriage. And, of course I wanted him to follow that with some action.
Hmmmm!
In my view, I have done that a number of times - both in and out of joint counseling sessions. Her response has uniformly been to shrug her shoulders and say "I don't know" or "I just can't do that"
She has even said "I don't want to talk about what is wrong in our R because then you are just going to try to change it and fix it"
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
