Well, we spoke again last night. It was bad. She had gotten back from IC, and said that they decided that W should speak to my IC totell him to stop givinge false hope, that W has no past issues. I told her I don't hold any false hope, I am just committed to our M and want to exhaust every possible means of fixing it. I asked who on her side knows so far, and she told me her sister and close girlfriend. I asked what they were telling her, and she said they were supporting her, that if she is unhappy, she should end the M.
She's lying. Ask your IC to call hers; no respectable C is going to ask their patient to call their husband's IC and tell him how to treat his patient!!!
You also need to talk to her family, and tell them the TRUTH about what's been going on, if you haven't already done so.
I'd be willing to bet $1,000 she's been lying to BOTH.
