I think my W might be further along than yours. She still has a fantasy world in her mind, but I don't think OM is predominant in it. I think her fantasy world is just as appealing to her with just her and the kids. She is willing to stay in this limbo we are in indefinately. She told me since she has no feelings for me that it would be easy to continue living in the house, even sharing the same bed. The more I see other sitch's here, the more hopeless I think mine looks. SHe is just plain done. I am more committed to dbing than ever, trying the last effort technique.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.