Don't think it backfired - seems that it worked. Has she brought this up in teh last 2-3 weeks - you said not. Was there supposed to be a discussion about it?
The way things were left, I gave her my comments back, she said she needed more than that and I said we could talk more but she never brought it up again. In her view, based on this morning, I had the responsibility to do that and I didn't follow through.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
If she is committed to that path, why the obvious conflict in her?
I don't know if it is so obvious - she seems pretty rigid on the fact that she wants to go ahead with things.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
It seems like she, in common WAW tact, is blaming you for all the problems, thereby justifying her choice - dare I say she believes you have forced her to do this. The fact she is still conflicted may show she is leaving a little bit of the door open.
That is exactly what she has said - there is no choice by her but that she HAS to do this and it is all my doing. Still not sure about conflict right now, but I need to ease back from this morning's nonsense and get some perspective.
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