Well, I didn't roll over and give in while we were talking last night. I wanted to agree to move out, thinking it would help her and also show her I am really a nice guy in trying to make her happy. The "That is BS" switch went off in my head and I realized the reality of the situation and I stood my ground. No matter how she stated it, and she did say the same thing like 5 different ways, I would not give in to my wanting to stay in the house and wanting the kids to stay in the house. She even went so far as saying she would foreclose on the house so it wouldn't be a factor. I'm not saying I am perfect in this DBing, puppy, but I am trying. If I hadn't found this website and talked to all of you, I might have given in last night. I also told her I wouldn't stand for being spoken to like a child, and also confronted her head on about the OM. She still denies, of course, but I didn't accept her denial.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
