I think another chapter should be added to the book....GF12, your sitch resembles mine immensely. Even your thought process is similar. I may have said this before elsewhere, a new person in ones life to concentrate on does wonders for the rope and or turning the page. Although, some of us take a while longer to accept and move on, that new person (although she or he may not develop into a life partner) definately help to move on.