Thinker, I have to go back and read your posts. It sounds like you are in a similar situation as me. I have 3 and 5 year old boys. W is happy to leave them with me to go out and meet her friends at night, but reluctant to let me do stuff alone with them. She also would like me to just disappear and leave the house and financial support. She also is involved in a EA, i don't believe a PA. We just recently had a discussion about custody, and although she agrees that joint custody is in the kids' best interest, she wants to be the primary guardian (whatever that means).
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
