Actually, I would have preferred her to just be honest about it. But I know she can't.
Yes she can. Please stop making excuses for her.
She simply chooses not to in order that she doesn't have to face the utter shame and depravity that she let herself stoop to. Brushing it under the carpet is easier now but it's a cancer eating at you, as you've discovered.
What is unique about the conditions under which she's open and honest, or as honest and open as she gets?
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
