Thanks, and I also agree with you. I guess I also resent the fact that that horse has long bolted due to my weakness I guess.
Btw, we did go to Retrouvaille. It saved our marriage, or at least gave us breathing space. Both of us were about to walk out when we went for the weekend. We re-connected for the first time in a small way by the end of the second day. She absolutely detested the thought of going but has thanked me since then many times for making her go.
The session I mentioned when she actually broke down and came out with words of praise for me was at a CORE sessions.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
