Yay!!!!! Finally a new thread.

[AlexEN]

I do want to add that asserting that the WAS has no guilt or has no clue is a big dose of mind-reading. Much of their crazy behavior can be attributed to the guilt they are feeling. I am not saying that we know one way or the other, just saying that just because they spout out blame and vitriol doesn't mean they don't know somewhere that they are f*cked.

Yes, but, per prior, is knowing somewhere that they are f*cked necessarily a function of guilt, or self-preservation so that they won't feel guilty later? After all, if they can be so lucky as to have someone else accept that blame, they can absolve themselves of it. I know all the while W was carrying on her affair, she may have felt "guilty" about it, but she certainly didn't do anything to dissuade me from thinking the ILYBINILWY was ALL my fault(if anything she would remind me of all of my foibles) ... Yes, it's a rhetorical question, I know... but, at least in my sitch, there appeared to be an overt attempt to shed/fight off any pangs of guilt...