A Wife that has come back? Post Affair feelings ,,

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So you are still living together? Did you guys separate for any time? When you discovered the affair (btw was it PA or EA?) did she end it straight away (but still claiming that she was in love with him)?

I am in a similar-ish position in that my h seems to want back in. However, we are separated (and have been for about 2.5years) and though he doesn't want to let me go he puts off going to counselling and won't move back in. For some time now, I am not sure I want him back. The damage I think, has been done.