A Wife that has come back? Post Affair feelings ,,

[wolverine1997]

You will never have peace of mind until the OM is COMPLETELY out of your marriage. She needs to understand that. She is going to have to made a decision. But so are you. Either you can deal with the guy being around and learn not to let it bother you, or you will have to tell her that you can't deal with it and she is going to have to make a choice. But right now you are giving her any easy way out and you are suffering in the process. It seems like you are just happy to have her back. But you also doubt that you truly have her back as long as he is in the picture. Hard decisions will have to be made by YOU and HER.