Oh and also, it would help if he would refrain from texting me this cr*p. The one thing I deserve to get out of being separated is not having to be subjected to his opinion or those of his "friends." Believe me, I spare him my drama and pain and the opinion of those around me UNLESS he opens up that dialog. Regardless it is unhealthy and mildly abusive for both of us.
I can ignore them, but preferably I will find a way to communicate that he needs to stop. Perhaps if we make it into counseling or even as a stipulation.
