Sandi2, Once again I thank youfor your insight into this.I am working on going dark.No more phone calls,etc.I pretty much told her that I wasn't signing any papers and if she wants to live apart ,fine.That was a couple days ago.A divorce or legal sep.would financially hurt her.I myself am doing fine even with all this happening.Meaning i'm still healthy ,in shape,and not doing anything unhealthy.Would a relative or friend speaking to her still be advisable?
