Hi Shannon. I am doing better. Thanks for your concern. I say your name often in my prayers. It is so sad to see these things transpire. It seems like when they reach the point of "indifference" then it is time to give up. As long as they are showing anger & hurt.....then that means they still have strong feelings.....but indifference simpley means they don't care one way or the other. It's worse than "cold".
I do hope you can grieve for the man you fell in love with. You "need" to do that in oder to move on and find peace. This has and still is tramatic to live through. There is no easy way around it. But, Shannon, from day one, I thouhgt.....here is a classy lady who is strong and graceful and can do what she needs to do to be health and move on to the next chapter in her life.......and she will do it with anticipation b/c she is a positive person. You will intentionaly look for good in your life and you WILL find it. I know we certainly found it in "you" when you came to the DB board.
So, yes, you greive, sweetie b/c it is necessary. You keep coming back as long as we can help give you any strength at all. Just for the conversation.....would be nice....
I've got to get ready to turn in for the night. You take care.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
