BTW, thanx for the compliments above! smile Sure, I guess, I'm leaving the door open otherwise I would have ditched him. I'm just enjoying the peace I have within myself. No pressure to make things work nor any real expectations. If he calls, he calls, if we meet up, we meet up - if not - no big deal.

On Sunday, I called my xh, he answered, we chatted for a few minutes. He thanked me for calling, no it's not a typo - he did thank me & then said he would call me sometime this week. And maybe said we could take a bike ride on Sunday. We will see, otherwise, I have things to do.

When he was over last, he had his hair dyed with highlights. I said it looked good. He said his stylist said the highlights would hide the grey. I told him that I had been on some internet dating sites & some pep on there really do look their age or even older. I told him that he didn't look his age. He said sometimes he feels it.

For my garage, I'm taking out a loan to have it built, while the economy is still bad & I can get a relatively good deal. Just preparing for my "old maid days"! smile


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)