Hi orchid1, Sorry to hear your convo went around in circles. I was wondering if any of the men here were going to decode for you, it really does help. Aaahh, where's Kenn when you need him??
My xh said the same type of thing when he left, "it would be like we are dating again". In my case it was an easy let down & keeping the door open. (Yet, in my case my H tended to avoid me). Heard the line as well, fresh start, back to 0. That screams to me I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT NOR HOW I FEEL & DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH IT. Your H is unhappy, but what he doesn't realize is that HE has to find is own happiness. For him maybe that means starting out on a clean slate. I don't understand that either, because how can you grow into a better, more understanding person then?
Hang in there. Have you even seen That 70s Show? Have a be cool, whatever attitude. Try not to let it get you down & focus on you!! You are doing great!!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
