I will say there is hope if this is her first and only A. But if there have been others, she's in serious trouble.
I needed to add something else. B/c of her strong resentment, lack of attraction, and disrespect toward you......she will not listen to what you have to say trying to encourage her to seek professional therapy. Is there a parent, close sibling, a good strong friend that could talk to her and try to reach her and get her to seek help? These friends, relatives, etc. can absolutely NOT agree with her lifestyle. Many times WW find new friends that support them and don't listen to any of their former friends or their family.
I am so sorry b/c I know this is killing you. I know you want to force her to do something, but the reality is that you can't make her do anything she doesn't willing choose to do. Even if you could "make" her go for help....if her heart is not in it....she can't be helped.
As I said, apply the DB rules and become as mentally strong and attractive as a man can possibly be. Improve anything that "you" don't like about yourself. That is for "your" self esteem......not to try to please her. Your self respect is very important while going through this ordeal. Do not allow her to step on you what-so-ever. She must respect you or she'll never love you.
If you have any questions for me, I'll do my best to answer them. If you want to download that E-book, you can type in womens infedelity and get the information. It would be worth it.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
