one other thing watch the finances they spend and spend as if no tomorrow watch the bank accounts seperate credit cards they also rack up tons of debt if you see a lawyer, you can get advised and you dont ever have to file or tell your H you sought legal advice get as much info as possible so you are prepared and protect yourself and your assets peace
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