3 years of S, OW gone - What do I want?

[forward]

SH, Well, I told Sleeper the same thing, but there is a difference between letting go and giving up.

Let go.

DB C told me to be approachable, so if an apology/regret is to become part of it, you have a better chance of hearing it.

Work on being approachable. But you can let go at the same time.

If you're anything like me, your interests are just sort of landing with you and you're not actively seeking anyone out. That's OK. That said, I, too, am tired of being alone.