Sandi, you do bring up some very good points. Some H's are mentally abusive and don't realize it. They just think they are the king of the house, so take it and do your "wifely" duties and be thankful I allow you here. Even if they are not physically abusive, sometimes it is much worse. I believe that wifey could have been indicating something to that nature.
Sandi, can I get you to look into the last page or 2 of my thread and answer a couple of questions I left for you. Newbie with waw2. Thanks