Maybe the husband did things to make life with him unbearable.
Interesting to notice how the LBH's reacted to Wifey's statement. I did not think for a second she was pointing fingers at any particular man. She was speaking in general terms.
See, so many guys get down on all WAW's (in general) to the point I wonder if they stop and think that there are a few cases where the WAW just got fed up with living with a jerk.....or an abuser.....or bully, and finally gave up on him EVER changing...and she left! LBH's are not always the angel and the WAW a b*tch, just b/c she was the one who left.
One of you immediately thought Wifey was refering to you, and another one thought that she meant that D was the first option and then another thought she must be speaking from experience. I didn't know whether to be amused or sad. Guess it depends on where you are sitting.
I'm not trying to start a debate......just wanted you all to see what I immediately picked up on. Think another gal saw it too.....(hummmm)....interesting.
Just try to keep it balanced, guys.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!