Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry. Listen, DO NOT PANIC.

We have all heard the same words you have and I know how deeply they hurt.

These are some of the things you need to do:

Stop all begging, pleading, promises to change, saying I love you. That just pushes him further away.

Do not have any relationship talks with him. Do not talk about the other woman (OW) at all.

Do not snoop.

Take care of you and your kids. Eat, rest, exercise.

Read as much about MLC as you can.

He might be spending great amounts of money. Protect yourself.

Dbing is about taking care of you, making the changes you need to make for YOU. Sometimes, it saves marriages, too.

We will discuss what else you can do in the coming days, ok?

We will be here for you. You will be ok.


Last edited by beginnersmind; 07/07/09 10:18 PM.