<< Yes I'm way too analytical but the truth is, I think it all boils down to power, perception of value, fear of loss, hierarchy of power in society, etc.
<< The sad thing is this doesn't say to much about love does it at least not from the WAS point of view. They only change their mind when you decide to move on and start dating others, you take away their power of choice.
Rob, I think you nailed it down right there. That's why I question if the WAS loved us at all or is even capable of it!? To me a big part of this thing we call "love" is "commitment" or a "decision" as coach pointed out in retro.
And I'm willing to bet SP's Florence Nightingale ain't the true Lady with the Lamp. SP it's OK to get angry - you are suffering trauma.