Hello "almostdonebut" Thank you, its good to hear from others. I am from Iceland and my sister lives in USA and found this for me. There is not much help here, people just act like you just have to start a new live. Last summer was like he changed over night. Stared to say I am not happy, I need something some out of life, ILBNILWY,we have nothing in common, we have grown apart, etc. this went on for 6 months and I tried everything to help him feel better. And after christmas came the bomb OW. We have been married for 20 years now in July, we have D21, D19, S11 and D6. We have had strong and very good marriage and been much in love, he gave me the most beautiful diamond ring and necklace just 1 1/2 year ago and told me how much he loved me. We have had our difficulties in live like moving tvice to another countrie starting company in another country and lost everything, lost unborn child 7 years ago, he also lost his mother shortly after that. And now when we were doing so well in our live, found our dreamhouse, having enough money, then this happened. OW worked with him, and he says she understands him. He just complained about everything what I had done or not done. I am devestated. ------------------
