Sandi, You are right on about some Christians not walking in authority. Jesus never allowed the Scribes and Pharisee's run over him. He spoke the truth with authority and power.
I'm paying for my misconception of laying down my life for my W right now. There is a big different in laying down your life and allowing her to completely treat u like a piece of garabage.
The bad thing about my W is that her sister who is the lead singer in the church, also is just as bad. She gives her bad advice and wants her to be miserable. Her sister would tell me that I was the best thing that has ever happened to my W but tell my W that she could do better. I'm dealing with alot of two faced people in her family. She goes to a family church which can have its strongholds.
When my W first gave me her petition for D, she told me that I better get a lawyer. I told her that I have the best lawyer ever. I typed up scripture my petition and went over it with her. It was scripture concerning D. Since we are both "Christians", I thought I should make it known to be being her H. My W justified it by saying her aunts that go to church got a D. I did this during my begging and pleading stage, but I felt obligated to do this though. As I look back, I don't regret doing that. I think in order for my W to grow spiritually, she is going to have to find another church to attend. I felt lead to attend another church this past Sunday, and it was confirmed by several people that I would die spiritually if I stayed at my W's father's church. This subject is a whole issue in itself.
Sandi, you are right about my D2 being away from my W. I know eventually as my D2 aging, my W is going to flip out on her because she already can't discipline her now. All my W does is buy my D2 toys, and I mostly discipline her.
My W paints a beautiful picture of herself until people figured her out. She treats her friends like royalty. My W always tells they she loves them before hanging up. She would do anything for them. She really has her priorties messed up. When OM finds out how she really is, he will be in a mess.
"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".
