Puppy, I would love to bust the affair and bust the guys face but I don't know if that would make things better.This seems to be a catch 22.If I let the affair continue my w could be pulled farther away from me.My w is already out of the house.She admitted to the affair after I found out but says its only PA.Considering the stage I'm at right now I cant really do anything to stop this.Yesterday I pretty much told her that I am not doing anything legal in terms of filing and that it doesn't make financial sense for her either.I just told her if she wants to live apart than fine.
