Yes, hard to trust her judgment. But you can't control what she says when you're not around, and you can't be around all the time. Thing is, as any child of divorced parents will tell you, there's what the kids think in the short run, and what they think in the long run. They may believe lies in the short run, but as they mature they will see through a parent who lies to them. And they will make their own judgments.
