It kind of has me stumped about your wife. She keeps finding "excuses" to contact you but she turns around and reminds you how ugly she's treated you. I "know" why a WAW treats her H ugly, but I haven't really figured out why she persists in this contacting. Most WAW's want as little to do with their LBH as possible. The more the H tries to approach the WAW....the more ugly she will be toward him.
If you had the nerve to do it, I would think about calling her bluff on this S. In other words, see how serious she really is about sticking to her S from you. I just have a feeling that if she thought you didn't give a donkey's tail flip about her anymore, that she would break her neck getting you back. As I've tried to tell you before, it is human nature.....and especially with a WAW. However, I don't know if you've reached that place where you can do it b/c it would be the same as dropping the rope.
Just a thought.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
