I personally don't really "believe" in MLC. I think nearly all of the sitches are simply infidelity, and if you could bust the affair and MC, you'd have a better chance than waiting around for "years and years" that they say it takes.
Of course, I could be wrong. I'm certainly no mental health professional. But in almost every MLC sitch, the infidelity is either ignored or treated as an insignificant by-product, and I think it should be more central than that.
