just got off the phone with W. she wants to take 2 days to think about what she wants and i agreed i'm going to be doing the same. we agreed no decision had to be reached that day. just both of us thinking and then talking about what we had thought about.
she asked me if i really want to be miserable with her being back if we agree to it, and i asked her if she really thought i was miserable with her? she said sometimes. i said i was never miserable i just obviously didn't express how i felt very well at the time.
taking a firm stand with her seems to have gotten the ball to gain momentum, which is what I needed. i can back off now and let her think about things. i believe i've handled the last 24hrs and the last week for the matter, very well with her, feel free to disagree with me lol. she has really started to open up and come around more. where we head next i'm lost on, but like i said before, i'm crossing that bridge when i get there.
