You've been working hard to focus on yourself and to take the higher road. You are angry and you have every right to be. Perhaps you are in a gray area between DBing and faking it. At some point, perhaps when you've made your decision about what to do, authenticity will have to come into play. In other words, when you're mad as hell, you will be direct about it (not hysterical, just direct) rather than hiding behind nice texts.