Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[blindsided1]

You are all right. I need to stop looking at his FB page. It isn't healthy for me. And, I know it is better that K is cared about by OW's family than not. But, I can't tell you how much it irks me that she refers to K as her child, her sons are called her big brothers, her Mom is called her Grandma. IT'S BULLSH!T. I worry that it is going to confuse her. I want to say something to H about letting her make up her own mind how she wants to address them as she gets older instead of letting OW dictate who "they" will be to my daughter. How would she like it if I called their son my step-son and referred to my Mom as his grandma. He technically IS my step-son at this point. It is so her. This is exactly how she has been from day one. An inteloper. Shoving herself into someone elses life whether they want her there or not. She is a pretty contolling little woman. Funny how my H thought I was controlling and he had no control over his own life...um, he has to ask her permission to see his own daughter, if he can have money or do anything for that matter.

Whatever. It's the life he chose. Sucks to be him.

But, the Grandma, Mommy, Big Brother comments PISS ME OFF.