No contact with W on Monday - tried to call last night to see how S3 liked camp - got voice mail - mailbox full - unable to leave a message - that's ok she would still know I called from caller ID.
She sent me an email today - suggestion a anger management group in the city - starts in 2 days - and she also included in the email a "Couple Enrichment One-Day Retreat: Become More Connected and Re-Ignite Your Love" with the same company that is in a week and a half.
Called them - Unfortunately its too late to join the group anger management (yes i do/did have an anger problem that I have been working on with IC) But I could get a one-on-one session to do the course which I am seriously thinking about joining - just waiting for receptionist to get back to me with counselor schedule.
W said she would let me know later if she wants me to sign us up for the couples on. I'm not going to pressure her - since it was her suggestion - I'm hoping that she still wants to do it.
Just going to give her time and space - nothing more has been said by her about putting the D paperwork on hold with her lawyer since the weekend. Time and patience, and I'll wait and see what happens.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story