So, if I'm wrong... What WAS your purpose for telling us about your various Florence Nightingales? The two assumptions I made were compliments compared to the belief that you actually intend to fly around the country to chase tail.
What does it transform into? It's not jealousy then if it transformed. So what is it?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I know it does to Gucci. And I've long felt that we WAY over-analyze some of this stuff, and that -- what's that Razor thingey? -- sometimes the simplest explanation is the right one?
What does it transform into? It's not jealousy then if it transformed. So what is it?
So I'm the only one here that was scared of losing their spouse, I'm the only one here that was jealous of the person that my spouse was having an affair with?
Isn't this fear & jealousy?
Didn't those things motivate me (even partially) to look for a way to stop all of this?
It bothered me at first but now it really doesn't matter to me what she does anymore. We live on different sides of a wall. I'm doing it for me now.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
I know it does to Gucci. And I've long felt that we WAY over-analyze some of this stuff, and that -- what's that Razor thingey? -- sometimes the simplest explanation is the right one?
Puppy
I hear alot about this "Gucci" fella, I sure would like to hear from him, I tend to agree with most if not all of your wisdom Puppy and I think you mentioned that you learned alot from him.
Gucci if you're out there, give us a shout, reply on this thread when you get a chance.
I think fear and jealousy can be motivators for a person to make necessary changes in their life, as you have done...but I don't think fear and jealousy are good foundations to rebuild a relationship on!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
I think fear and jealousy can be motivators for a person to make necessary changes in their life, as you have done...but I don't think fear and jealousy are good foundations to rebuild a relationship on!
So fear & jealousy only works on LBS's but doesn't work on WAS's?
Aren't we all human beings?
Fear of losing something tends to make people move to action of some sort.
