If this latest stunt is at all indicative of Monsoor's "normal" way of looking at things, in many respects you're catching a break here with the dissolution of the marriage. This is not the kind of behavior that one wants/needs/expects where two small children -- and their futures -- are at stake. I mean, "my rich bud is loaning me the guest house on his estate" is hardly a college savings plan, is it?
And???
I am inclined to find my own place with the kids and ask for a certain amount of money (that I know he can afford) and he can do what he wishes with his money.
Or what? Wait until his gravy train stops...he may float forever.
I'm beyond pissed that I have to make the next move.