It's automatic when you feel it

[Jayce]

Hey, #5, great to hear you are progressing. Just one thing, remember Schnarch's original book was about your 'sexual crucible'. You know exactly what a crucible is, right? Reading what the case study people had to go thru, confront about themselves, difficult for them, even searing. Melting them down and recasting them in different form. Worthwhile results, but not for the faint-hearted nor those who can't stand confronting themselves. Willingness to participate in open dialog is huge. It would be great if you two find your issues aren't so bad that you both have to pull your guts out & poke them back in again. :-)

Funny it took a year....about the same for us. A long time to get a spouse's attention. Just think if we hadn't kept at it, kept trying to move forward...
Jayce