All of SPs "needs" on his list - pizza, beer, sex, house-keeper, new car etc. Are just wants in my book. Did he have all those things while deployed?
Nope. Didn't have sex, either. So let's add that to the list of "wants" and drop the rope on this circular "need" discourse.
@LuckyGirl:
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Doesn't anyone else here want to vomit when they think of casual romps with multiple partners? All those genitals intermingling
Can't speak for anyone else. I think you know what my answer is.
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why are you flying all the way to Europe to get laid? That sure will be an expensive trick
Business trip happens to be to same destination where Florence Nightingale lives.
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I'm going to assume that you're telling us about all these women simply to stroke your own ego and/or to provide shock value for the crowd because you're bored. Whatever floats your boat, I suppose.
Okay, if that's what works for you. You know what they say about assuming. But more power to you; carry on.
@Greek:
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yes, by definition, you are doing what we agreed Mrs. SP was doing with Schmuck.
We will have to agree only to disagree. WAW had an affair. I am a separated person who has just filled out his response to his STBXW's divorce petition. I categorically reject the notion that one can have an "affair" during the dissolution of a marriage. WAW has, by her own words, no expectation of fidelity to the marriage from herself or from me. "We're on our own now." When she was en flagrante with Signore Schmuckatelli, I did in fact have an expectation of fidelity, given that I thought (foolishly, as it happens) that I was married. I did not then know I was already dead. The latter was an extra-marital affair (from my POV -- note, not from WAW's, Herself already having decided to drop the Bomb). The former is just getting lucky (no pun intended).
@aliveandkicking:
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How/why? do you know this? (a question I have to ask myself)...
Misdirected voice-mail from the organizer who thought s/he was phoning WAW's mobile. Which is why WAW wigged-out. The same reason she wigged-out when I confronted her with evidence re: Signore Schmuckatelli -- she substitutes taking offense (both pronunciations of "offense") for taking responsibility.
