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I feel for your loss Mike and I know that there is no prep that can be done or I would be doing it for the eventual loss of my own P's.


well, as morbid as this sounds I have been preparing myself for years..my dad was 84...years ago I started imagining how he would die, how his wake would be..how he would be laid to rest.....

and i think that has helped me now..

plus before dad left here he left awesome testimony which makes it easier..

I hate it for my younger sister, who was there all night the night he passed..my younger brother who is guilt ridden because he returned from a beach vacation the day before dad died...and my older sister who was his chief caretaker...

my mom seems ok..and that may be because her and I are alot alike...realist...he was not going to get any better..unlerss there was a miracle...he was only going to continually get worse..