Hi orchid,
Sorry things are so cloudy and confusing, I think that regressing some would be completely normal considering the signing of the papers. Dont be too hard on yourself! I'm sure if that day comes for me I'll more than regress a 'little' Keep moving forward tho, its the only way to go in the long run. Maybe revisiting goals and setting some new ones will help you get thru, give you something else to focus on(as well as all the new stuff in your life!)and day by day it might get easier.

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I really like the place that you are in. It sounds concise and clear.
Thanks I'm glad I sound that way bc I dont usually feel that way. I feel definite ups and downs and I pretty sick of them, but they are getting less severe. Strange how this sort of thing becomes 'normal' after months of living like this.

Give it some time and hopefully your thinking will bc clear again. Make sure to take care of yourself, you can do this. *hugs*


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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