My appointment with the C is tomorrow.

H texted me in the pre-dawn hours that he is so stressed about money and why aren't my parents helping more etc.

I really let him have it, not bitch, just straightforward and when is he going to look at himself???

Texted me back that he was up all night looking at himself.

I said we should discuss these matters in person as grown ups.

We have absolutely HUGE financial issues and they are the a huge part of why he ran away. Now, it is hitting him and he thinks my dad will bail us out???

I really wish I could find someone to help us wade through this. We need a really adept MC and I am not saying to fix the marriage but to help us tackle the multitude of issues from finances, to emotional, to the kids.

I will see if the C tomorrow is capable of dealing with this kid of situation.